Drugs

A Guide for Addicts, Youths and Parents Alike.

First steps to combating a drug problem

Sometimes a parent observes worrying behaviour for some time and has evidence to confirm that the young person is involved in drugs. In other cases a crisis may occur; for example, the young person may come under the influence of drugs or alcohol.

If this happens to you,  you should ask simple questions like, "What did you take? How long ago? Did you swallow, inhale or inject the drug? and then use common sense to decide whether there is a need to get a doctor or attend a hospital.

If you decide that outside help is not necessary you should stray with the young person overnight and avoid further confrontation until he/she is sober. Then both parents should talk to the young person in a firm but loving and supportive way.

It is important for you to find out whether the young person is  at the stage of experimenting or has been using drugs regularly.

If the young person has been using drugs regularly you should refer him/her for assessment by the local GP or by the Addiction Services at your local Health Board straight away. If it is a case of having something once, it may never happen again if you are firm, supportive, reasonable and vigilant.

Unfortunately, many young people when questioned deny any involvement with drugs. You must spend time trying to get through to the young person, and try to understand their point of view. You must spend time listening to what they have say and know as often as possible where they are, when they are not at home and who they are with.

You should set firm, consistent rules for behaviour.

If worrying behaviour continues, you should speak to the young person again and meanwhile look for evidence of drugs or drug equipment. You should also contact the school or he parents of the young person this may throw more light on the situation.

If it is discovered that the young person really is on drugs, time should not be wasted, you should get professional help. The young person might need treatment and counselling, and indeed you whole family may need help

It can be a shattering experience to find that your teenager has or is taking drugs regularly. You'll need the support of your friends and professionals if you are to help them overcome this problem.

While a serious drug problem can be difficult there is always hope.      

If you know that your child is doing drugs then you should get in contact with one of the following;